We tend to think they don’t care about us. We prefer to assume we are not important for them. We feel they are not there for us when we need them.
We all do. We all prefer to feel wronged. It’s just easier you know… than going upto them and saying, “I need you.”
We expect them to be there. And when two friends expect the same thing at the same time, they distance.
What remains to be done is… understanding. Or maybe assuming the better option – they are there, just not here.